Things that are not intimidating
Have you ever been faced with that impossible question from a friend?
She looks you in the eye and asks for the truth—for one moment of brutal honesty: “Why doesn’t he like me? I don’t know about you, but when I tell my friends they are intimidating, what I mean is that they are just too awesome for the guy.
She graduated with a degree in Communications—Journalism and a minor in editing.
Jenna enjoys painting and calligraphy, planning a wedding, and Pinterest and Netflix.
I can say no easily."Jennie: "My friends think I am intimidating because I work in a corporate business environment which would at times be associated with rigor/aggressive natured people.
It’s an environment that breeds people to become coarse or cold emotionally in order to get to the next level.
And if they are intimidated, is that good intimidation (as I suspect), or is it more of a turn-off thing?
I asked many of my friends who often get the “he is just intimidated by you” line why they think they fit the mold of a hard-to-approach gal.
So if you identify with these traits, it doesn’t mean men see them as a negative thing, and it likely won’t be the reason he doesn’t ask you out. It seems to me it would be more helpful to remind our friend that she is awesome and she is going to meet a guy who is the right match.
I asked six men what qualities they found intimidating in women and here is what they said.
When I asked men what they consider intimidating, the most common response from the guys, was that women who they perceived as dominating attention were intimidating…but not in a good way.
“When girls are cool, smart, good looking, AND have a good personality” he says it’s much harder to go for it.
Oh and, according to Mike, “Hot girls with hot friends are intimidating.” Zach says: "If a woman is independent, she doesn't need you to support her but she allows you to.Here’s what they told me: Abby: "I am very independent, and I love autonomy.